Comments on: Learn To Dance So You Can Dance Your Life Away

By: M

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:46:59 +0000

I had no confidence so I started dancing on my own. I learnt the basics from tutorials off Youtube and watched lots of different dancers and dance crews on Youtube to get inspiration and learn new things. Once I got the basics down I could invent my own things and it gave me more confidence to show others what I’m made of. About 2 months into teaching myself I entered a competition and came 2nd.. not bad.

What you could do is teach yourself the basics from Youtube, experiment with them and that will give you enough confidence to join a dance club. What you should also be thinking is that it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, dance is your thing, if they don’t like it then forget them… they clearly don’t understand it. And by the way the funnier your dance is, the better it is. (In hip hop dance anyways) So if you see them laughing you’ll know why.

Dance is so important to me and I’d heavily advise you to get into it, especially considering you say you have zero confidence. Dance will help you gain confidence, learn new skills – life skills as well as dance skills, and overall make you into a better person. Lately I’ve been having a rough time; overrun with exams and the girl I "love" doesn’t seem to like me back but whatever, it’s alright, because every time I’m feeling down I plug in my iPod and move. That’s the beauty of hip hop, you can do ANYTHING as long as you hit those beats and move to the music, just remember you’re dancing to express and not to impress.

I really hope you get enough confidence to pursue you’re dancing, I’m sure you won’t regret it, in fact I know. Dance now and think later.

"There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them."
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By: StrawberryJamTarts<3

StrawberryJamTarts<3 — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:44:59 +0000

Starting Dancing with people you don’t know is nerve racking ! I remember when I went along to my first dance class and I had no friends or anything ! But after a couple of weeks I made friends with all the girls there, now I’m bursting with confidence after only two years of dancing, I love it
Just go along to a local dance club, you’ll love it after that first nerve racking session ! xx
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By: Wendy L

Wendy L — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:42:59 +0000

well first find out were your nearest dance classes are (if there are any ) join it , you will meet others and learn how to dance ,or find your nearest nite club go a long act as if you are with some one and cant find them , join in on the dance floor , smile and talk to the person next to you , this is a good way of meeting people who live in your area, go a few times then they will get used to seeing you , try it as i do this when my friends dont go out , iv met loads of people this way
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im a 50 yr old mother been clubbing for 39 yrs some times a lone

By: grace,x

grace,x — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:40:59 +0000

going there will improve your confidence. when i started dance i was SO shy and was a loner for like 2 years, and now im absolutely fine. find some classes near you and just go to them, and practice at home as well. like freestyle to any music you hear.x
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By: Miranda A

Miranda A — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:38:59 +0000

i would try going to a new dance studio it might help boost your confidence with some new friends who all have the same interest and share the same hobby as you
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By: D a n c a.

D a n c a. — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:36:59 +0000

You have no confidence. Neither did I when I started hip hop. Gradually you may get used to your class, your teachers and it might help if you could get a friend to come with you. Hopefully your teacher isn’t going to get you to dance a solo by your own choreography in front of your whole dance school. Jokes.

Nope, if you have passion, go for it. If you want to dance, just go and you’ll gradually be able to build up your confidence. I suggest you hip hop, ballet or jazz lessons, as breakdancing, musical theatre, etc. requires skill, confidence and passion. Those may be for later on.
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By: holiday1

holiday1 — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:34:59 +0000

Bear in mind that hip-hop ans/or break dancing is only a passing fasion as it was when it started. Try a more formal type e.g. ballroom dancing. If, as you say you lack ‘confidance’, remember the every new pupil at the class will be feeling exactly as you do, even if they don’t show it. after the first lesson all will be well ass you will all have broken the ice – If you see what I mean…
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My wife and I go dancing after having lessons – great fun.

By: elllielibby

elllielibby — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:32:59 +0000

dancing will be how you get your confidence .. look up some local dance clubs and go along and try .. its worth it i promise.. hope ive helped x
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By: hazel homicide :)

hazel homicide :) — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 11:30:43 +0000

I Want To Learn Dance,But I Have No Confidence…?
i really want to learn dance,like break dancing or ballet…anything.
when my family were breaking up i escaped too dance,and i felt so free i guess.
but i moved town,and have like no friends here,my friends live 1 and a half hours away,my friend does hiphop dancing…but she lives ages away.
what am i gonna do..?:( x